I was worried today and I decided I would share my worries to relieve it...
1. I'm worried I might be homeless.
2. I'm worried I won't find a counterpart/Significant Other who I respect and is my equal in terms of passion, love, mindset etc. (I like rare birds...)
3. I'm worried I won't ever finish my book or get to share it with the world.
4. I'm worried whether I'm doing all that I can to make sure I'm living up to God's standard of me.
5. I'm worried that I'll never fully be able to be myself.
6. I'm worried that my mother will never say she's proud of me.
Those are just some of mine. What are yours?
Rules:
DO NOT JUDGE.
Only say encouraging things to one another.
Please be friendly and respect everyone's worries even if you think it's not troublesome.
Alright! Shoot!
I was worried today and I decided I would share my worries to relieve it...
1. I'm worried I might be homeless.
2. I'm worried I won't find a counterpart/Significant Other who I respect and is my equal in terms of passion, love, mindset etc. (I like rare birds...)
3. I'm worried I won't ever finish my book or get to share it with the world.
4. I'm worried whether I'm doing all that I can to make sure I'm living up to God's standard of me.
5. I'm worried that I'll never fully be able to be myself.
6. I'm worried that my mother will never say she's proud of me.
Those are just some of mine. What are yours?
Rules:
DO NOT JUDGE.
Only say encouraging things to one another.
Please be friendly and respect everyone's worries even if you think it's not troublesome.
Alright! Shoot!
I definitely fear your first one
I definitely fear your first one
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sootfeather I hope we're both not homeless. <3
I'm worried I'll die alone
I'm worried I'll die alone
I'm worried I'll ruin the only good relationship I have
I'm worried I'll ruin the only good relationship I have
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LuxOmne
Those are all very valid worries to have, but I also hope they don't keep you from living your life in the now! It's good to think about the future sometimes, but if it will overwhelm you with stress, I hope you can make an effort not to do it too much.
It certainly sounds like you've got a lot on your plate. I'm sure that most of your worries will fall into place in due time! I'm sure there is a partner out there for you and I'm sure you can make yourself and others proud. Set realistic expectations for yourself and make your way up! If one thing doesn't get done, it's an opportunity to complete another!
Finding yourself takes time <3
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*******
That's a worry that many people have, and it's okay to feel that way.
It seems like you do have people who enjoy your company, and I'm sure you have some important relationships in your life that will last a very long time. Throughout life, even if you do drift apart from some loved ones, you'll also find yourself making new friends!
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fancystars
Any relationship can be intimidating, romantic, platonic, or otherwise. It's alright for you to worry that things will go wrong - it's an indication that you care about the relationship. I don't think that you will ruin a strong relationship with someone else, though; they might understand where you're coming from and, if you don't, in the future I'm sure you can build a stronger relationship with someone else!
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LuxOmne
Those are all very valid worries to have, but I also hope they don't keep you from living your life in the now! It's good to think about the future sometimes, but if it will overwhelm you with stress, I hope you can make an effort not to do it too much.
It certainly sounds like you've got a lot on your plate. I'm sure that most of your worries will fall into place in due time! I'm sure there is a partner out there for you and I'm sure you can make yourself and others proud. Set realistic expectations for yourself and make your way up! If one thing doesn't get done, it's an opportunity to complete another!
Finding yourself takes time <3
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*******
That's a worry that many people have, and it's okay to feel that way.
It seems like you do have people who enjoy your company, and I'm sure you have some important relationships in your life that will last a very long time. Throughout life, even if you do drift apart from some loved ones, you'll also find yourself making new friends!
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fancystars
Any relationship can be intimidating, romantic, platonic, or otherwise. It's alright for you to worry that things will go wrong - it's an indication that you care about the relationship. I don't think that you will ruin a strong relationship with someone else, though; they might understand where you're coming from and, if you don't, in the future I'm sure you can build a stronger relationship with someone else!
I'm worried that my Art degree will amount to nothing and I'll spend the time and effort to transfer to a state school for a piece of paper that should read "Business" or "Engineering" or something "profitable" rather than an overcrowded, specific major chock full of hopefuls straight out of college.
I'm worried that my Art degree will amount to nothing and I'll spend the time and effort to transfer to a state school for a piece of paper that should read "Business" or "Engineering" or something "profitable" rather than an overcrowded, specific major chock full of hopefuls straight out of college.
Hey, friendly reminder to drink water, stretch, and take a short break if you can. Stay healthy! Also, don't forget about any chores or tasks you might be putting off.
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Fizzywits
Oh! No, I'm not concerned about relationships, I know my friends and family will be there for me. I meant...physically, dying alone. That my final moments will be of me by myself and suffering.
Sorry I probably should've clarified a little better haha.
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Fizzywits
Oh! No, I'm not concerned about relationships, I know my friends and family will be there for me. I meant...physically, dying alone. That my final moments will be of me by myself and suffering.
Sorry I probably should've clarified a little better haha.
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*******
Ah, my mistake!
I'm glad you're aware that there are people supporting you <3
With regards to the physically dying alone, I think the best thing you can do is be careful; beyond that, things will be outside of your control, but the likelihood that you will die by yourself is very low ^^
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*******
Ah, my mistake!
I'm glad you're aware that there are people supporting you <3
With regards to the physically dying alone, I think the best thing you can do is be careful; beyond that, things will be outside of your control, but the likelihood that you will die by yourself is very low ^^
