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Talk about your crushes!!

So I have a crush on this guy and I have troubles trying to talk to him and talk about him so I am going to release it to you all to get this big rock off me!

Some people say my crush and I are perfect for each other. In fact (even though we are not dating) it's the biggest match in the school. Honestly, they don't know a thing... not at all...

Anyway, I think he has a crush on me. He tries to get into conversations with me at awkward but some how hilarious times. He loves talking about himself around me (Maybe to impress me?) Don't see him doing this around other people. His jokes are what always gets me! Everytime I laugh, he looks at me like he thinks I am impressed! (But I truly am) We make a lot eye contact at least 20 times a day and I always have to look away..

The thing that scares me the most is how easy it is to tell that I am crushing on him. I have given so much body language there is no way he doesn't know!

So do you think he has a crush on me or is he just like this?
Also maybe talk about your crush if you want!

Edit April 21st:
Still, nothing happened between us... but my crush still does seem to get closer to me over time. I am always the first person he looks at?

Edit May 13
He found out that I liked him while everyone was shipping us together. He didn't dislike me then but I must of done something that got him to hate me right away. I can't even consider him a "Crush" anymore since I dislike him greatly now. I still nab a few glances at him to see if he still does look at me and he still does? I don't know why because apparently he hates me now. Occasionally while we make eye contact he will make blocking signs with his arms which was the main thing that got me to dislike him.

@Archo

It sounds like he is so totally into you haha. Like, you should literally just go for it, I mean everyone else thinks you'd be a perfect couple.
(if anything does eventually happen, tell me. I'm suddenly super interested lmao)


As for my crush, well that's a bit tricky. Not only am I a guy and totally crushing on another guy (which is hard enough when you're 15 haha), I'm also trans and he thinks I'm a girl. Which technically helps me out, but it also doesn't because I don't want him to think I'm a girl?
ahh oh well. we're really good friends so that's pretty good :3

@SkyPhoenix
I will let you know! In fact, I will probably try and build up courage to talk to him.

I also have another crush thing: I am bisexual, and I told my friend this. She said as long as it doesn't affect our friendship she would be totally fine with it. She wasn't interested so I moved on.

Also thats cool! My sister has a friend who is trans and likes guys. I am unsure if he has a crush though.

Yes, I guess it helps you if your crush thinks you are a girl but like you said, you don't want him to see you as a girl. This is a very well tricky one if your goals are to get closer to him, he would have to know you are trans!

@Archo It definitely sounds like he has a crush on you!


I'm going to gush about my own crush now
There's this boy at my school, who I'll just call S for now. We've been friends on and off for four years and I've crushed on him the whole time. He's cute and funny and always cheers me up. We have so many similarities - Doctor Who, track, martial arts... I can't remember all of them. Lately we've been talking more and it makes me really happy ^-^ I think he likes me back but I'm not sure.

@figiena @sylkaen
It's nice to know that he likely has a crush on me!

Figiena:
Eeee! That is a hard one! You could try asking him out or become closer to him. This is a big problem though because it is highly people will see you as a girl like you said, but honestly, you shouldn't care how they see you since only you know who you are. Your crush will always know you are a guy.

If you really hate being known as a girl, I would probably try to become really close friends with him. In all though, if everyone already knows your trans, they would always see you as a guy! Honestly, I can't be always right because some people are different though.

Sylkaen:
Super great that he is talking to you a lot more! You can try checking his body language when he is around you. If he likes to be closer to you but when he talks to others and is farther from them, it could possibly mean he crushes on you.

If he talks about himself a lot and gives you a lot of compliments it means he is trying to impress you! (Usually, can't always be sure) If he also talks about more personal things that he wouldn't usually talk about to other friends, it would mean he is trying to get even closer to you.

Pay attention to him when he makes jokes. Usually right after he makes a joke around you and looks at you, his joke was mostly intended to make you laugh!

If he shows a lot of signs like this, I am highly sure he likes you. Him talking to you a lot more means something too. It means he would rather be with you, another sign he probably crushes on you!

Uhh, my crush is from England...same city that my boyfriend lives in...he's got nice calves, a nice ***, and he was(his last season happened in the Fall) our goalkeeper at my university with the most beautiful blue eyes @_@

I like to ogle him mostly for booty, but he does have a goober/happy/fun-loving personality that was always entertaining when i got to sit next to him in math.

AND I SHIP HE AND HIS GIRLFRIEND SO HARD, CAUSE SHE'S A MIDGET AND HE'S THIS TALL ATHLETE AND OH LAWDY.

so I guess they're both my crush. I have a crush on a relationship??? Mergh

I'm super mad @ myself because I'm kin w/ Bill Cipher yes and out of all the boys I could've had a crush on it was the one who's last name is Pine and now the billdip jokes will not end

But that's not the point my crush is this guy in my band/French classes and he's really bubbly and enthusiastic and he's a filthy meme

It's very cute but he made me feel the heart eyes emoji and that isn't ok so I'm waiting until he graduates in a couple months and then I'll be free

@princessnight
I am sure he likes me because of my attitude! I know a lot and some people can find me simply pleasing to listen to. That story is great though! My crush is more like an underdog rather than a pushy leader. I don't think he likes it when he gets his way.

@Somnibris
Right? This guy got me, that meme must go! Gaahhh crushing on him! Honestly my crush is also a filthy meme.

@ElveraBasilisk
My crush was never in a relationship and nor was I. Does that make me lucky? Also one time I had a crush on a guy with super deep glimmering blue eyes. They are like the water eyes in this game!

My crush is super sweet, he has like 43g of sugar. He's also got a real nice tan, practically orange. I'm always running into him at the store and restaurants and even in the cafeteria. You can always tell when he's around by the smell of his citrus cologne though. Uhg, I just can't get enough of him.