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Frankly the biggest problem is if two enemies attack me at once, I always die. I'm level 12, should this still be happening?
ESO is a pretty complex MMO with loads and loads to learn, so unless you're having a grip on some of the game's fundamental rules and quirks, it's pretty normal.
You can out-damage solo content enemies pretty well if you know how to spec your character, and if you have the right gear. To give you a pointer, the amount of stamina and weapon damage influences the damage of your damaging stamina abilities. The same goes for magicka damage abilities, except it's the amount of magicka and spell damage.
If you want to be more tanky, then your attribute point distribution is much more nuanced, because it depends mostly on what abilities you use and from what pool they draw. Of course, health is going to be your main attribute, and you always want to get your spell and physical resistances up, I think ~30k on both is on the optimal side of things.
You can also ditch damage abilities in favor of healing power, but those two kind of go hand in hand, as your spell damage and magicka will also influence how much you heal so making a hybrid of both works pretty well.
As ford dodging, bashing, and blocking, there's three things you always want to watch out for. First, yellow charge attack. You see gold/yellow lines being drawn into your enemy. You should block or dodge that. Secondly, red charge attack. Same as yellow but red, you can bash the enemy and interrupt the attack. AoE, or area of effect, which are damaging/stunning effects on the ground, usually telegraphed in red.
Always stay out of it if you're not tanky. It's extremely important to do these things if you don't have good gear and want to stay alive.
Now, personally, I'd recommend going for a magicka damage dealer with some healing abilities. Reason being that stamina characters generally have 1 reliable heal, and you only get it from PvP.
As a magicka Nightblade, there's three abilities you should keep in mind. First, Strife. Heals you for 50% of the damage caused, it's a good spammable. Soul Shred for its morph, Soul Tether. Damages all enemies in the area and gives you a healing over time for each, while stunning non-boss enemies. Shadow Cloak and its morph Dark Cloak, the latter healing you while reducing damage taken.
Also if you're using first person, ditch that and use third person instead, as first person will limit your situational awareness tremendously.
Well, there's a whole lot more to everything and I skipped over a lot of detail, but I think this is enough to get you on the right track. If you're on PC EU, I could send you my in-game ID and help you out directly.